Disconnect Your Oughta Pilots!
Step into your Power
Rekindle your Passion
Open yourself to Possibility
Hello, Your Life Is Waiting
If you have ever …
- Been hurt in the past so you play it safe and don’t engage
- Had a breakdown with someone you trust
- Been made to feel you need to apologize for speaking up for yourself
- Felt like you were all alone and nobody knew what you were going through (or wanted to know)
- Had the bottom fallen out from under you and felt powerless
I Say Enough!
It is possible to change the way we relate to the things that have caused us pain in the past; that break in trust that has been such a deep wound. But we need the right person to guide us through it or it won’t happen.
That being said, there is also a case to be made from starting from wherever you are now. Everyone you have ever had any interaction with that has given you any pause or insight into yourself, EVERYTHING that has ever happened in your life has made you the person you are right now, right here. It’s all very well and good to want to go back and change what hurt you, challenged you or made you feel any way other than happy, but life moves forwards not backwards and you have to move with it. You have to deal with your Oughta Pilots (those shoulds and ought-to’s that rob you of your power to choose) and take back control for yourself.
Living a Created Life is not easy. It takes courage, it takes guts and it takes work. I’ve developed a set of tools that can help you make choices instead of decisions, get back to a balance point when there’s an upset and have increased freedom and control over your life.
Shed the blame and shame of betrayal stories. You’ve carried it long enough. Stand up and be the bright light you were born to be. I refuse to believe there’s anything wrong with who you are or what you’ve done so far in your life; I believe there’s just more you haven’t thought of yet.
Your Life … Your Terms
Discover your strengths, let go of what you’ve always been and done, stop hesitating. Step up to living a powerful, passionate, life filled with possibility.
All we have is Now, and Now, and NOW!
I’m not here to tell you what to do — I’m here to teach you the tools you need to planifest your visions and dreams. Let’s find those dreams you’ve stuffed in that box under the bed, shake them out and teach them to dance!
Let’s re-vision your lives, disconnect your Oughta Pilots, those shoulds and ought tos that keep you powerless, and live your purpose, on your terms, with power, passion and possibility!
Let’s talk.
Hello
I’m DeBorah
I am a Life Docent. I’m here to be a tour guide and safety monitor as you walk through the hallways and spaces of your life.
Been There Done That
In a lifetime of starting over again and again, I have become proficient at seeing the beauty in the shards of memory, the usefulness of the cutting edges of experiences and the value of letting go of the stories about “what happened to me”.
Suffering Is Overrated
I see people so invested in suffering and stories about what happened. It makes me crazy because I know you don’t have to suffer, and you certainly don’t need to believe the stories you made up for yourself! If you created stories that cause you suffering, you can create one that makes you happy.
I can show you a way to edit/recreate/rewrite the story you are limiting yourself with. Life doesn’t need to be hard and painful. It can be glorious and delicious! My work is a way out through the fire and into rebirth; out of the scary into the safe.
I am here to create the experience and embodiment of power, passion and possibility for you.
The 3 P’s of a Created Life
I help women who are frozen, hesitant to engage, reluctant to be themselves, step into their Power, rekindle their Passion and open themselves up to Possibility.
- I teach you to step into your own Power, reclaiming clarity, purpose and the ability to dream for yourself, set and enforce guidelines and boundaries and release the myths and stories you’ve told yourself about the past.
- I help you fan the embers of ecstasy, rekindling Passion for living, dreaming and manifesting by teaching methods to realign yourself with your own visions and live Created Lives on your terms.
- I allow you to open yourself to Possibility, providing the space to voice your Vision and the support to pursue it.
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